If you haven’t been on a date with a Mexican woman yet, then this April 23rd could be your opportunity to do so.
“Why April 23rd?” You might ask.
It turns out that April 23 is National Lovers Day. Although its origin is a bit vague and undetermined, some sources believe the holiday came from St. George’s Day since it also falls on the same day.
National Lovers Day is considered an unofficial holiday but that doesn’t stop couples and singles from celebrating romantic love.
Lots of men have a fantasy of falling in love with their ideal Mexican woman. In fact, Mexican women are often portrayed as passionate, strong, and feminine in the media.
Although these are just general stereotypes, some of them have a kernel of truth to it.
So if you’re interested in pursuing a Mexican woman, here are a couple of ideas:
Whether it’s taking them out for dinner, on a weekend trip, booking a romantic seaside resort, or bringing them out for a picnic, as the man in the relationship, it should be your duty to take the initiative and take a Mexican woman out on a romantic date.
In Mexican dating culture, men are the initiators and the active pursuants. In fact, Mexican ladies expect it.
They also expect to be treated with respect and courtesy - and there are many ways to do it.
For example, be mindful of how you communicate with them while you’re on a romantic date. Are you able to openly talk about things you like or don’t like?
Try to appreciate your differences and don’t judge them for that. Understandably, they come from a different cultural background than yours so you’ll need to accept that as their norm.
To make the occasion even more special, why not prepare a romantic and thoughtful gift?
In Mexican dating culture, it’s normal to give romantic gifts to your Mexican girlfriend. In fact, a lot of Mexican ladies expect to be showered and spoiled with small tokens of affection.
Details are key when it comes to picking a romantic gift. Learn what kind of hobbies she likes, what her favorite color is, and her favorite things to do when she’s out at the mall.
Some Mexican women don’t expect flamboyant gifts while others do, so make sure to gauge her level of interest closely.
Lastly, it’s important to make her feel special and use this gift-giving opportunity to bring both of you closer than before.
If you’re into cooking, why not try your hand at learning her favorite dishes? This gesture serves as a thoughtful way of showing how much she means to you and how serious you are about her.
Because in Mexican culture, food has always been a strong influence in the local lives of its people.
It’s the glue that holds families together and is an always-present element when there are celebrations, quinceañeras, and family get-togethers.
Some Mexican recipes are easy to make while others require a bit more skill. So make sure to research the recipe first before making it.
Many Mexican women tend to be jealous and territorial with their partners. To avoid unnecessary drama, be honest with them.
You don’t want to break their heart over a simple misunderstanding. You should also refrain from talking to your previous lovers and be careful with how you act around other girls.
Because if they catch a whiff that you’ve been meddling with other girls, you may end up regretting it.
Under normal circumstances, many Mexican women show a lot of passion, affection, and love for their partners. And anyone who has had a Mexican girlfriend before would agree.
But on the other side of that coin lurks a fiery temper - one that could be aimed at you if you’ve stepped out of line
That means having an unfaithful partner.
Many men enjoy the thrill of dating and seducing a Mexican woman. But most men haven’t realized that there’s an easier way to increase their chances of making Mexican women fall in love with them.
It’s not by giving gifts, or acting like a gentleman - although that never hurts. But it’s by learning about the Mexican dating culture.
Generally, it’s not very different from the common customs you’re familiar with but there are a few Mexican woman dating rules that stand out.
They are:
The man always makes the first move in a romantic pursuit
The man takes on the role of breadwinner and pays for all dates
Public displays of affection are considered normal
If you’re seriously considering marriage, the girl’s father must be consulted.
Lots of words of affirmation, and compliments and gifts - including roses and other tokens of affection
More importantly, if you’re seriously courting your Mexican lady and want her to be your bride, you need to keep the romantic vibe when dating.
Constant reassurance and strong emotional connection are your keys to getting her to say yes to being your girlfriend.
Let’s say you’ve done all you could and expressed your love to a Mexican lady. You took her out on a romantic date, prepared lots of thoughtful gifts, and strongly expressed your feelings toward her.
So now what? Have you figured out how to know if a Mexican woman likes you and is willing to be your girlfriend?
The next step is to wait for her answer.
Will she say yes?
Will she say no?
Most Mexican women won’t beat around the bush. They’ll typically answer you in a straightforward manner whether she’s into you or not.
And you’ll know things are getting serious when she introduces you to her family. Family is very important in Mexico and her family will be around her a lot.
So it’s important to ask permission from the girl’s parents to date her seriously OR there will be consequences.
Your in-laws will either love you or hate you but once you’ve gained their trust and respect by treating their daughter well - they will be good to you.
So if you’re still facing doubts and challenges, don’t be. To quote a famous Latin phrase, “Fortis Fortuna Adiuvat”. To translate, it means Fortune favors the brave.
So if you don’t make a move soon, how will you ever know she feels the same?
