Do you want to know more about what itâs like to date women in Mexico city? Do you want to learn what sets the hearts of women aflutter? If youâre the kind of man that wants to know as much as he can so as to maximize his chances of romantic success, then read on because weâll tell you what you need to know about dating in Mexico City.
No matter your previous experience with women, youâll have to behave when youâre dating a woman in Mexico.
Hereâs how you should behave:
Be a gentleman: First things first, Mexican women appreciate a man who acts like a man. They appreciate a man who will hold doors open for them, pull out their chairs, and give them their coats or jackets when it gets too chilly. So be prepared to make that sort of effort when you go on a date.
Be decisive: Speaking of being a man, you also have to be decisive. You have to take charge. Not only do you have to plan the date, and maybe pay for everything, you also have to follow through on your plan.
If youâre being indecisive and flip-flopping, youâre going to make a lot of women down in Mexico see you as being a little spineless and thatâs going to be very unappealing to them.
Wear your heart on your sleeve: Some guys arenât all that great with expressing their emotions. If youâre one of those guys then youâre going to need to start practicing because the expression of emotion is expected in Mexico. Because of this, if you donât emote, then itâs going to be off-putting towards Mexican women.
Now that you know the how of the date, itâs time you learn about the where.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Most people donât meet and get married immediately. Generally, people get from Point A to Point E by passing through points B, C, and D. So youâre going to have to start somewhere if you want to marry a Mexican woman.
But where do you start? You start at the first date. However, thereâs a complication thatâs standing in your way; youâre not from Mexico City.
You donât know where all the good dating spots are. Sure, you could check the internet, but youâre probably going to end up with a bunch of tourist traps that are going to overcharge you for bread and water.
But donât worry about that because weâre about to let you in on some great first date ideas to try out in Mexico City.
Basically, the park doesnât just cover your first date - it can also cover your second, third, fourth, and beyond.
Have dinner in Polanco: If youâre the type of guy who prefers a sit-down dinner as a first date, then your best bet is to head over to Polanco. Polanco is one of Mexico Cityâs nicest neighborhoods and boasts a wide assortment of bars and restaurants.
Sail the Xochimilico Canals: Located just outside the city proper, the canals are over 450 years old. Theyâre filled with floating gardens called âchinampasâ that have been growing food since before European contact and you can book a boat to ride down the canals.
Play at Papalote Museo del NiĂąo: While Papalote is for children as its name literally translates to museum for children, they do have a night dedicated towards adult patrons and the interactive exhibits and displays are sure to provide a date thatâs both atypical and memorable.
Cool off in Colonia Napoles: If youâre looking for somewhere that is a true staple of Mexico City, then look no further than Chiandoni in the Colonia Napoles neighborhood of Mexico. This ice cream shop has been scooping up servings since 1939.
Walk around Coyoacan: Cities change. People move in and out of neighborhoods. Old buildings fall and new buildings rise up to take their place. But there are some pockets that are slower to change than others, such as the neighborhood of Coyoacan. The architecture and the color have barely changed in the last century, so you and your special lady can take a walk there and go back in time.
Have a spa day: In Polanco, thereâs the W Hotel. In the hotel, thereâs the AWAY Spa and the spa offers the temazcal, which is an ancient ritual akin to a sauna thatâs supposed to purify the mind and the body. As far as dates go, a purification ritual might just be the thing to push two people together.
So, you want to know how to plan memorable dates in Mexico City. Well, youâve got a few suggestions listed above. Youâve got a general idea of how to act, also listed above. Now, all you need to do is to make a choice, show up, and then follow through on that choice. Choose a place to take a woman, then pick her up, and take her to that place.
No battle plan survives contact with the enemy. Thatâs a quote thatâs attributed to German strategist Helmuth von Moltke. It means that no matter how well you plan something, unexpected circumstances can come up.
A date can be planned down to the last detail, but any number of things can go wrong. So while you should have a plan, you should also be flexible enough to adapt to changing circumstances. Being able to adapt will make it easier for a real relationship to bloom from that date.
