There is nothing subtle about the way Mexicans do things. Every image the world has of Mexico is bright, colorful, festive, and over-the-top. And for good reason. Which is why for lonely souls and hopeless romantics, traveling to Mexico in time for Valentine’s Day may just be worth the airfare and more.
If you aren’t already dating a Mexican woman, you certainly won’t regret going out of your way to meet one. If you’ve always had that sinking feeling in your heart, a feeling of incompleteness, or a general lack of vibrancy in your life, a beautiful Latina has been known as a viable remedy.
Their naturally tanned skin, wavy locks, curvaceous bodies, and strong, vibrant personalities have always been reasons why foreign men crush over these women. But it’s really their warm hearts and love for their man and family that’s got them hooked. And because they actually like being romanced by men from other countries, there’s no reason single men shouldn’t try their hand in dating them.
Valentine’s seems to be losing its charm with a lot of people nowadays. If you’re thinking glass half empty, you might see all-hearts day as somewhat of a gimmick. You could cynically describe it as something that appeals only to hormonal middle schoolers looking to get their first kiss. Perhaps you could see it as a soulless opportunity for corporations to get a quick buck out of all the red-colored merchandise.
And even if you do look forward to celebrating with your significant other, imagine all the brain power needed to find the perfect gift for her, let alone the stress of getting a restaurant reservation.
But do you remember being in love with a woman and getting a chance to celebrate that love? Truth be told, it’s probably the most amazing feeling in the world. All the stress and hassle diminishes in comparison to the feeling of being across a beautiful woman, and all you two are thinking about is simple, unadulterated romance.
The more you study about Valentine’s Day facts and history, the more you begin to realize that, like any other holiday, it is much more than just a commercial day. It is the only day dedicated to the romantic love between two individuals. And so what if it’s all the rave among high schoolers? At the end of the day, you’ll be feeling like one yourself!
The way Valentine’s Day is celebrated is, for the most part, universal. This means that the day has transcended countries, languages, and culture. It is familiar anywhere you go, including Mexico, which does have one thing that sets it apart.
There, the holiday is known as El Dia del Amor y La Amistad, which translates to “the Day of Love and Friendship.” This means that they do not consider the day as solely a commemoration of romantic love, but of the love between friends. This way, you can also send letters and gifts of appreciation to your closest friends and family, as a way to honor them.
As far as traditional romance goes, there is plenty of that to go around. And just in case you aren’t totally sure what to get for your Mexican date, here is a list of common gifts she may appreciate, no matter how cheesy:
When in doubt, get your date a rose, or even a dozen. Not only will they spark her fancy, but they send just the right kind of message to her, which is neither underwhelming nor excessive.
There will never be a shortage of balloon carts on Mexican streets on the 14th of February. As long as your date is a good sport, a cute love-themed balloon can brighten up her day. Just don’t make that the only thing that you get her if you want to show her you are serious about her.
What would all-hearts day be without a good old-fashioned handwritten letter? Plus, that beats out any fancy digital greeting on your smartphone.
The trick to a good letter, however, is in the content. If you have been dating this woman for a while now, then it is totally okay for you to wax poetic about your undying love for her.
If, however, this is your first date together, then you want to be a bit more conservative with what you want to say. Don’t go all out professing your admiration. Instead, subtly hint at your delight at the opportunity to spend time with her.
And even if your Spanish isn’t quite there, she will definitely appreciate a sincere attempt at a few nice greetings and phrases.
Mexicans are romantic at heart and aren’t shy about it, so don’t hold back. A Mexican woman revels at being wined and dined, and can get quite jealous if her friends get treated better than her.
So make sure you get reservations at a nice restaurant. While some may suggest getting a Mariachi band for the ultimate authentic experience, we say that’s up to you. What you should do is make sure you get to a dance floor. You cannot waste the opportunity to dance with a passionate Latina.
While being overly physical on the first date is never a good idea, test the waters if you feel you have a bit of chemistry. Simple things like holding her hand and stroking the hair back from her face can lead to more intimate moments. If there is one thing you should remember, it’s that in Mexico, public displays of affection are quite normal. You may see people kissing on the street, in the restaurant, or at the park. You could be one of those people.
No matter how your evening ends, however, always treat your date with the reverence and respect she deserves. Always do the right thing. The love and respect you give her might just be reciprocal.
If you think your love life needs a boost, then why not take the risk with some of the most passionate and romantic women on the planet, women who aren’t shy about showing affection? And what better time to do it than on a day that thousands of those women dread to spend alone?
After all, you’ve just one life to live. Whether you want to meet a Mexican woman through an online dating site or by walking the streets of Mexico, it will always be worth the effort. And if you manage to bag a date for February 14, then you have lots to be excited about.
